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Fourth, give your husband time to grow into his new role as Head of the House. When he has proven himself to be worthy of respect and submission, THEN offer your submission to him as a gift. Once given, it is his--so the submission is REAL--but it was your choice and it can be revoked.

One more thing--since you have kids, take every opportunity to build your husband up in their eyes. You don't have to say, "Wait til your father gets home!" but you can say, "Let's wait and see what Daddy says," or "Let's show Daddy how much we appreciate his hard work and make him a great dinner," and things like that. Your appreciation will grow along with your children's and your husband will truly blossom. Good luck! Charlotte

by Charlotte on 2005 Mar 3 - 14:25 | reply to this comment You are most of the way there! Sally,

Thanks for sharing your experiences in you thoughtful post. I am not sure why you only want to hear from people who either do not have a taken in hand relationship yet or are new to Taken in Hand. Everyone shares the experience of starting a Taken in Hand relationship, even the people who have been at it for years started somewhere! :)

I am wondering do you already have a Taken in Hand relationship? You seem like you are most of the way there already. If you are already submitting to him what are you hoping will change when you tell him? Has he picked up on your change? Has he started to make decisions, started to exert any control on his own? Just curious. I never thought of starting our Taken in Hand relationship that way. I am curious how it is working out.

As for us, we started our taking in hand relationship with me telling my husband that I fantasized about spanking. We tried spanking and it did not seem to work very well and was very funny. Then I stumbled across Taken in Hand type relationship boards on the web. I cautiously told him about it, thinking he would laugh but he did not. He did not understand right away, and he needed to think about it. We explored sites like this one together. He wanted to know exactly what I was talking about. He was not sure it would work but he was willing to give it a try. We talked and talked and talked some more.

If he is willing, you can share with him some interesting posts you have read on this site, that have really spoken to you. You need to remember to take it slowly and be willing to change if things do not seem right for you both.